Christian Men Who Are Calm Until They’re Not — Anger and Marriage Struggles

Why Christian Men Anger Turns Calm Into Rage

Most Christian men know how to hold it together. You’re calm at work. You’re calm at church. You’re calm around friends.

But then… something happens. Your wife says one thing. Your kids push one button. And suddenly the anger Christian men try to suppress explodes like fire.

One moment you’re steady — the next, your marriage is starting to feel the heat.

Why This Hits So Hard

I’ve been there. Rage, shame, near divorce. I know what it’s like to feel emotions spiral out of control — and to believe that maybe this is just “who I am.”

But here’s the truth: that fire inside of you isn’t the problem. It’s not Christian men anger itself that destroys. It’s unregulated fire.

• When it’s unregulated, it scorches the people you love.

• When it’s regulated, it forges strength, love, and purpose.
  

What I Do

I’m Kurtis Mercer — coach for Christian men who wrestle with anger and feel like their emotions are getting the best of them.

I help men:

• Regulate their fire

• Heal their marriage

• Walk in their God-given purpose

And I do it without asking you to fake it or pretend to be someone you’re not.

Because here’s the reality: you don’t need to be perfect to change your life. You just need to be honest.

Final Word

The storm will come. That’s not a maybe — it’s a guarantee. But you don’t have to drown in it. With the right tools, and by anchoring in Christ, Christian men anger can be transformed — your fire can be forged into freedom.

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