Identity & Boundaries

Kurtis Mercer wearing sunglasses and speaking into a microphone in front of a red and black background with a hand gripping a chain-link fence beside bold white text that reads “YOUR NOT A PUPPET,” symbolizing freedom vs control and breaking free from manipulation.

Freedom vs Control

Most men think they want freedom — but what they really crave is control. This post dives into the hidden fear that drives rebellion, the generational patterns we inherit from our fathers, and why real peace only comes through surrender to God.

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Oct 183 min read

Kurtis Mercer speaking intensely into a microphone wearing sunglasses and a black shirt with white patterned sleeves, with bold text reading “FINE OR NUMB?” beside the dark silhouette of a seated man against a deep red background — symbolizing hidden pain, emotional numbness, and the struggle men face beneath the surface.

You’re Not Fine — You’re Numb: Breaking Free from Emotional Numbness

Most men say they’re “fine,” but they’re really numb. Behind the smiles and weekend routines is a storm of unprocessed pain. This post exposes the truth about emotional numbness — and how to start feeling alive again.

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Oct 123 min read

Kurtis Mercer speaking intensely into a microphone wearing sunglasses and a black shirt with white sleeve pattern, with bold white text reading “TRUTH COSTS CROWDS” beside an image of a hooded man sitting alone on a bench against a dark red background — symbolizing courage, isolation, and the price of honesty.

Don’t Be Afraid to Lose Your Tribe: The Power of Standing Alone

Most men silence their truth to keep belonging — but real strength means standing alone if you have to. “Truth costs crowds.” Learn why losing approval can be the first step toward finding your real identity.

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Oct 122 min read

Identity & Boundaries

Freedom vs Control

You’re Not Fine — You’re Numb: Breaking Free from Emotional Numbness

Don’t Be Afraid to Lose Your Tribe: The Power of Standing Alone

Helping Christian Men Regulate Their Fire & Heal Their Marriage